I long for peace and quiet, but I also long for peace in my mind. The struggles in my mind are constant. How do I handle certain situations as a mom, as a wife, as a friend. What does our future hold? What do our children’s futures hold? Am I preparing our children well enough for adult life? Is God pleased with me? Will He intervene in the painful situations I’m praying about? In the evenings, my husband and I usually watch the news, but much of it highlights tragedy and pain and fighting. Sometimes it all just drags me down. Where is God in all the suffering and war I hear about in the news?
If you’re like me, you could use more peace in your life. I’d like to talk about a few things that I believe help bring us peace. We can find peace by guarding our hearts, by cultivating our relationships, and by focusing on Jesus.
First, guard your heart. Proverbs 4:23 “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Consider whether you might be taking on burdens you are not meant to carry. I know there are times when I choose to take a break from watching the news or keeping up with what is happening to my friends on Facebook. There is plenty to cause worry, or to instill fear, or to make us sad. Now, if my family and close friends are going through hard times, I want to know about it so I can support them and pray for them. But with today’s technology, we’re able to hear, see and read about much more pain and sorrow from people around the world. Sometimes my heart just can’t take it. I believe we sometimes carry burdens in our hearts that we’re not meant to carry. I can find peace by guarding my heart from excess burdens. But I can also find peace by fully trusting God with the burdens I am carrying. When I pray for people I love, I need to release their care into God’s hands. God may direct me to act or speak to be a part of their care, but ultimately, my prayers should entrust them to God’s capable hands.
Second, in order to find peace, cultivate your relationships: with God and with others. Each of us is personally responsible to cultivate our relationship with God.
“But in keeping with his promise we are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth, where righteousness dwells. So then, dear friends, since you are looking forward to this, make every effort to be found spotless, blameless and at peace with him.” - 2 Peter 3:13-14
Our relationship with God was initiated by Him, but we have a part to play in cultivating it. He can change us to better reflect Jesus only as we are willing to allow Him. He can speak to us, but we need to be listening. If we’re ignoring Him or disobeying Him in some area, we lack peace in our relationship with God. So each of us must be personally responsible to cultivate this most valuable relationship.
If we do this, we can draw from God’s strength, which enables us to maintain better relationships with other people. He shapes our character and enables us to extend love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. While our human tendency is to react negatively when we’re offended, God’s strength helps us to:
- Overlook small offenses and extend love and grace to others, especially those who frustrate or hurt you.
- Confront more serious offenses with the Biblical model and prayer. (Matthew 18:15-17)
- Cope and forgive when apologies are not given.
Living a Christ-like life is a world-changer. We can bring peace to our relationships through drawing on God’s deep, deep love and extending it to each person He has created.
“Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 23 Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels.” - 2 Timothy 2:22-23
“For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.” - James 3:16-18
In a world where the evil one is seeking to steal, kill, destroy, divide, discourage and deceive, we reflect the glory of a God who gives generously, brings life, restores, unites, encourages and is truth.
Third, we can find peace by focusing on Jesus. In John 14:27, Jesus says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” We have everything we need in Him! When you’re bogged down by conflict or chaos, fix your eyes on your Savior, Jesus. Soak in His Word as much as you can. Talk to Him about it. Remember His power and great love and the hope He has given us. Sing or listen to songs of worship.
Praise brings us joy! Praise God in the midst of weariness, sorrow and pain. Be reminded of His ultimate control and love, and His presence which is always with us. Rest in His control. If you’ve accepted Jesus as your Savior, you have the Holy Spirit to help you know God through reading His Word. What a rich blessing this is to have a Creator God who sent His Son to live among us and to show us what God is like, and who conquered sin and death, and now lives in Heaven to intercede for us, and for those who have made Him their Lord, have the Holy Spirit to guide and direct our thoughts and actions!
It’s amazing to me how sometimes I come to realize I have entrusted God with the destiny of my eternal soul, but I forget to entrust Him with my day-to-day concerns. He is working in me to change my response to my children when they frustrate me, and make me a better model of character to them. He is showing me how to train them to work out their differences. He is giving me insight on how to be a better mother, wife, friend, and disciple of Jesus. He is showing me what work I can do to help grow His Kingdom and share His news of salvation and great love. And He is giving me peace in the midst of chaos. And my peace is a witness of God’s presence in my life that may draw others to seek Him also. So guard your hearts, cultivate your relationship with God and with others, and focus on Jesus. Let Jesus give you peace.
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